tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2866184793776090332.post6914637474421243922..comments2023-03-22T07:21:36.891-04:00Comments on God's True Word: But I Love HimMinister Noticehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02787795207542147405noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2866184793776090332.post-82406799233181281902011-02-03T09:22:12.755-05:002011-02-03T09:22:12.755-05:00Sister Judy, you addressed the exact issue I belie...Sister Judy, you addressed the exact issue I believe Onamission was pointing to. These hurt goes deep, where it has traveled via generations. However we have the power to stop it, but the choice have to be made to do so. You touched on some key elements that one who falls in any of my scenarious, whether it be the victim, or the one causing the hurt, it must be considered. Amen for you post.Minister Noticehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02787795207542147405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2866184793776090332.post-32013131736291443212011-02-03T08:53:29.681-05:002011-02-03T08:53:29.681-05:00Onamission
you are right, many women are damage as...Onamission<br />you are right, many women are damage as children by people they love and trust. This is what they know, this is what they grow up seeing..they see there great grand daddy, their grand-daddy, their daddy, their brothers doing this and then they themselves do It and their kids end up doing it (both male and female). However, when is it going to stop? When will they stop this generation curse? When are they going to look inside themselves and say “you know what, this has to stop. This is not right. This is not love… I NEED TO STOP it here. I will not allow it to go any further than me.<br />We all have been hurt one way or another.. Some wounds are indeed deeper than others are, and required more time and help to heal. However, they will heal. God will heal them for you if we allow him to. Whatever we go through, we have to remember that we are not the only one going through it.. we maybe going through it now in order to be in a place in the future to help someone else with that same hurt. <br />I am not saying for them to just up and get over it. No, it will take time to heal.. And we all do understand and sympathize with them. But are they going to sit there in their self pity or are they going to do something about it. Are they going to change their thinking, their circumstances? They have to want to change, and seek who is able to help them. Cause , only God can heal them and through their healing will he use them to help others who have and will be hurt…<br />@Minister Notice—You are right.. this can and should be use as a guide to all women as to what Love is. So many times you hear of women in relationship or you may have some in your family and what they are going through, makes you wonder why do they stay. Why are they allowing this to happen to them? That’s because they don’t know what love it.. <br />And the sad part is this is what our young girls are facing right now.. They figure if he buys me stuff or take me places he loves me.. They don’t know how to live without a man in their life and they have to always have one, they settle for less than they deserve. The devil will send these men to these women for one reason and that is to satisfy their flesh and nothing else. However, God will send the man to them that will not only satisfy their flesh but their spirit. He will be in accord with her and God..<br /><br />We continue to pray for them.. Continue to strengten them so they can overcome this and be the change in that Generation curse. Continue to feed them with the word and educate them.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05641452614053072015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2866184793776090332.post-55592803365039391802011-02-02T09:20:35.144-05:002011-02-02T09:20:35.144-05:00You are correct Onamission, but remember, these sc...You are correct Onamission, but remember, these scenarios are real and are far to familiar. In order to address the problem, you have to identify the problem. The problem is there is a disconnect to what they think is love, and what love really is. Whether they were taught wrong by their parents, or whether they were taught wrong by their first mate, the result, is their perception of love is incorrect. The only love that I stand by, is the love of God, and what He stipulates what love is. I am a Minister of the Gospel, and I address things from a spiritual perspective, hence using what thus saith the Lord to bring my point across.<br /><br />You are absolutely, 100% correct when you stated it will take more then that to undo what they have learned over a lifetime. I am not in disagreement. As stated in my closing, "I pray that this lesson, be used as a guide for women to make sound decision in the future." So you see, this lesson points to what love really is, and examples were given. It is up to the individual to take it and build upon it. Amen!Minister Noticehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02787795207542147405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2866184793776090332.post-24968505789523579252011-02-01T20:27:27.411-05:002011-02-01T20:27:27.411-05:00I could talk about this issue for days. However, ...I could talk about this issue for days. However, i will narrow it down to one point that may not apply to all women in these cases, but I bet it does for most. Many women are damaged as children...and often...it is by their own fathers. This hurt and damage runs very deep. From their very foundation "love" is warped and the young girl not only does not receive real love...they never even learn what it is. All they know is their parents are suposed to love them so what they give them, must be LOVE. <br /><br />Naturally when they grow up they have no idea what to look for. They refer back to their life experiences...their only experience of "love" which is not love at all. This is how cycles are formed. They are taught from childhood that love hurts...love lies....love controls...love is perverted...love abandons...love ignores... love uses fists to demonstrate love... love hides from the truth... loves allows... love is spread out to many others beyond one's own family... love is anything but the biblical version. One can read those words...but it takes more then that to undo what they have LEARNED over a lifetime. <br /><br />I guess what I'm saying is...a little understanding goes a long way and these women need to be understood before they can be RE-taught.<br /><br />OnamissionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com